Doing things for free doesn't make it priceless.
It just makes the price $0.
- Never outshine the master. Nobody wants to give up their position of power, so impress the master but don't out-do him or try to de-throne him, he'll want to give you everything, proudly, in time. Tell Daddy he's perfect. Tell him he's smart and you've learned so much!
- Never put too much trust in friends, learn how to use enemies. Trust no one. Save texts&pics as evidence to show his wife in case shitthits the fan. Blackmail is your best friend.
- Conceal your intentions. Don't give the enemy time to prepare for your attack. Act like you care about Daddy, pretend you're not just using him as an ATM, LOL! You are an actress.
- Always say less than necessary. Your goal is to impress and intimidate others, so don't babble. Be ambiguous with your words. Don't say stupidsshit. Let Daddy talk all the time- ask questions about him and focus on him. It's safer that way and Daddy loves the attention.
- So much depends on reputation- guard it with your life. Never tell Daddy your real name or anything detailed about your life. Do not go on dates in your hometown where people will see you together.
- Court attention at all cost. Dress to impress, stand out from the crowd, you will always get judged on appearance. Dress like a sloot.
- Get others to do the work for you,
but always take the credit.Never do yourself what others can do for you. Be the Queen, not the worker bee. But I disagree with taking the credit, that snaky move can get your fired and sued. If reputation is everything (#5) then getting caught stealing credit can ruin your future, not worth it. Also, when you acknowledge someone's contribution you gain their appreciation & loyalty- which can be used to your advantage in the future. Use Daddy every way possible- his wallet, his brain, his business connections... and show him appreciation, Daddies love feeling useful! - Make other people come to you- use bait if necessary. Let the enemy think you're playing defense, lure him "innocently" so he won't predict your attack. Send Daddy a text saying "Thinking of you..." or a pic of your cheekies on the floor- just enough to tempt him.
- Win through your actions, never through argument. Actions speak louder than words- and they last longer in people's memories, too. Never give sugar to an undeserving Daddy. Don't be afraid to walk away.
- Infection: avoid the unhappy and unlucky. Stay away from poor people. Don't talk about depressing stuff.
- Learn to keep people dependent on you. Never teach them enough so that they can do without you.
- Use selective honesty & generosity to disarm your victim. Throw your enemy off-guard with kindness, ie. the Trojan horse. "You'd look great if you could just lose 5lbs- hurry! give me your heavy wallet! lol"
- When asking for help, appeal to people’s self-interests, never to their mercy or gratitude. People are more willing to help when they benefit somehow, too. This is a mutually beneficial relationship.
- Pose as a friend, work as a spy. Know your enemy. Ask indirect questions to reveal their weaknesses+intentions. Act like you care, listen to his stupid stories and act happy or concerned as needed. Remember details- when you mention details in future discussions he'll be so happy you actually listened to him. Or if shitthits the fan, you'll have good details/evidence to tell his wife about, haha. Blackmail is fun.
- Crush your enemy totally. Battle to the death. Why is this #15? It should be the final Law. What is the ultimate destruction of a sugar daddy? Exposing him to his family.
- Use absence to increase respect and honor. Create value through scarcity. Limit your generosity to prevent getting taken advantage of. Do not cater to Daddy's every whim, especially outside of dates; think of this as an hourly job and every time you talk to him you deserve to get paid. Your time is valuable!
- Keep others in suspended terror: cultivate an air of unpredictability. Be mysterious, unpredictable, stay desired- men like a good chase. Make him live in constant fear of getting dumped. He is not the priority in your life!
- Do not build fortresses to protect yourself- isolation is dangerous. Don't live in a bubble. You have a whole life outside of the sugar bowl, don't forget that. Don't catch feelings.
- Know who you’re dealing with- do not offend the wrong person. Do your research. Google.
- Do not commit to anyone. Marriage = Death lol One sugar daddy is never enough to pay the bills, life is expensive! Get at least 2! Por que no los dos?
- Play a sucker to catch a sucker- play dumber than your mark. Make your victim feel dillusionally smarter than you, it makes them more vulnerable before the attack. You are an actress :-) Convince Daddy you're interested in him because he's special, not just because he gives you money LOL!!
- Use the surrender tactic: transform weakness into power. Reverse psychology, let him think he won. Get a blindfold and play some 50 Shades of Grey for as long as you can hold your laughter.
- Concentrate your forces. Pick your battles wisely.
- Play the perfect courtier. Flattery will get you everywhere. Tell Daddy he's big & handsome. Lie.
- Re-create yourself. Stagnate water grows algae. Have a variety of slooty outfits in your closet.
- Keep your hands clean. If the glove don't fit, you must acquit! Use a fake email, fake name, fake google phone number or texting app, never send pics with your face or tattoos in them! Hide your identity every way possible. Also look into using a VPN. No glove = no love!
- Play on people’s need to believe to create a cult like following. Ever wonder how the Catholic church become so powerful? People are stupid and want to be told what to do. Now you be Jesus! Be the ecstasy Daddy is addicted to so he'll keep coming back for more.
- Enter action with boldness. Be the Alpha. Have confidence, fake it when necessary. Push.Up.Bra.
- Plan all the way to the end. Don't half-ass anything.
- Make your accomplishments seem effortless. Make people think it's special talent and not just hard work that anyone can do. Spin for Daddy like a natural ballerina.
- Control the options: get others to play with the cards you deal. Give people options that only come out in your favor. You are the sweet sugar = YOU make the rules! This relationship happens on your terms or it doesn't happen at all.
- Play to people’s fantasies. Romanticize the truth. Make vague promises. Role play with costumes.
- Discover each man’s thumbscrew. Exploit weakness in others. Make Daddy cry = you OWN him!
- Be royal in your fashion: act like a king to be treated like one. The better you dress+act= the more people will respect you. Fake confidence if you have to, it's all about image here. (this is the same as #6 really) Dress like you own a Bimmer, then make Daddy buy you one! Cheap quality clothes look better in black.
- Master the art of timing. Tact is good. Strike when the time is right.
- Disdain things you cannot have: Ignoring them is the best revenge. By ignoring people you cancel them out. Do not engage. Do not let the enemy know his actions offend you = he loses power. Ignore haters and old women who stink-eye you in public, they're just jealous.
- Create compelling spectacles. Be impressive. Distract with arresting visual imagery. Always dress slooty, men are visual creatures. Lick your lips slowly during eye-contact.
- Think as you like but behave like others. Being relatable gains trust before striking with your true intentions. Lamb on the streets, tyger in the sheets.
- Stir up waters to catch fish. Throw your enemy off-balance before striking. Be unpredictable.
- Despise the free lunch. You get what you pay for. Be suspicious of everyone's ulterior motives. Do not meet with a potential-sugar daddy without first discussing allowance! There's way too many salt daddies and time wasters sneaking into the sugar bowl lately.
- Avoid stepping into a great man’s shoes. (similar to #1) Avoid the shadow of legacies and the expectations they bring, be original. You are not a sugar daddy's wife, so never act like one.
- Strike the shepherd and the sheep will scatter. Strike trouble at its source.
- Work on the hearts and minds of others. Pull on their heart-strings. Act sincere, have a good sob story- sugar daddies love to think they're helping an ambitious girl thru college. Paying for "tuition" is more justifiable in their tiny brains than paying for a new purse. LIE. You are an actress.
Disarm and infuriate with the mirror effect.this "law" is about mocking&humiliating your enemy... childish and passive aggressive games, ugh! I won't waste my time like that and I won't deal with it from others. I guess its use in sugarbaby land can be if you catch Daddy cheating on you with other babies then don't hide the fact you're cheating on him with other daddies- but this method can easily blow up in your face and get you dumped. Male egos are fragile! Don't risk good money over pettiness; men are never loyal, sugaring isn't about love or emotions, Stop.- Preach the need for change, but never reform too much at once. People want change but they can't handle change so you have to spoon feed it. Be gentle, men are wimps. Awww!
- Never appear perfect. People won't trust someone they suspect is a faรงade. Being slightly flawed = approachable. You are Daddy's perfect sugar goddess, but if something imperfect happens (like a fake eyelash falls off) don't be afraid to laugh it off with him. Never feel inferior to that disgusting pig.
- Do not go past the mark you aimed for; in victory, learn when to stop. Don't let success go straight to your head. Heidi Fleiss got caught because she was too greedy and got careless... Do not deposit too much money in your bank account at once, Big Brother gets suspicious.
- Assume formlessness. Euclidian geometry, be adaptable (similar to #25) Be flexible and mildly accommodating.